According to a recent study published on regarding dating sciencemag.org, Scientists say that the success in online dating are to aim high, keep your message brief, and be patient.
As we all know internet/online dating sites have become the most dominant form for those whose seeking someone to talk or romance. It also one of the most popular ways of meeting a long-term partner and most of the user of the online dating app are ranging 18-34 years old.
If you want to try online dating app here are some tips on ways to succeed on meeting a long-term partner online:
1. Have an Outstanding Profile Picture – your profile picture is the first thing that they will see so take that best photo to flaunt. Remember that a picture paints a thousand words so the picture that you’ll use will tell so much about you; your hubbies, like, to some extent, your character. So pick your best selfie before posting it on your dating app profile.
2. Create an Interesting Profile – so you made her check your profile because of your profile picture now back it up with an interesting profile. Now, remember that this is a dating app not a business or employment app don’t try too hard to impress. The key to creating an interesting profile is sincerity and vulnerability. Having the hottest picture with a douchey profile will do you no good.
Be vulnerable in the sense that you open yourself up. Don’t be afraid to tell people who you are and the things that you love doing. Let them know if you’re into sports. Or maybe you’re a bookworm with a library of books from your favorite author. A truly attractive person is comfortable in his own skin and has the confidence to reveal his thoughts and feelings without caring what others will think. If you are unsure of what you have written ask your best friend or some that are really close to you that you trust to proofread your profile to check that what you have written in an honest representation of character and personality.
3. You’re First Message – Now that you have your best pictures and a well-written profile you are now ready to send that very first message.
Your first message can be a crucial one so do go out sending random thoughts; you must tailor the message to your goal and the person you are writing to. You don’t want to give a beautiful woman a physical compliment because it won’t have a huge effect on her. Or you don’t want to tease a person who comes across they might not be the most confident person. You don’t want to send the wrong signal, do you? In writing that first message remembers that common sense goes a long way.
The perfect way to compose your first message is to read their profile then read again.
Try to find something that you might have in common. Perhaps a place she has been to a place that you have been dying to go to. Is she into a hubby that you have an interest on? Find something that can hold of and use, whether that’s a specific information or just a vibe you are getting. Compose your message around that. It is hard to figure someone out based solely on their photos and a few words from their profile, but you have to learn to go with your instinct. This may be a little difficult to master, and the more messages you send, the better you will get.
Online dating is the same as meeting someone the conventional way – it’s a numbers game. The more messages you send out, the more replies you receive.
Online dating might be a bit scary especially if you’ve never done it before but hopefully, these three steps are enough to get you started.